You have reported that your creature has been experiencing a lot of frustrations and arguing. This is more like what we want to hear. You remember, or at least should, when we talked about contention so now use it. This annoyance, or any other negative feeling, will help her be led down. Getting angry at those around her is what we are aiming for. The larger problems are more simple, providing her with much more opportunity to be stirred in this anger. But even if it is a small thing we can use it to our advantage. The key is to have her always thinking about it and therefore making it worse. The creatures tend to make things worse when they dwell on them, and the best part is that they don't even realize this truth. With her thoughts lead constantly towards this the relationship will be destroyed. Oh how delicious is the thought of that. One less person to tear from her life means one less defense holding her up. Keep at it and we will have her,
Affectionately yours
COILROPE