Another insecurity that you will want to attack is her need for being needed. This seems like a silly concept to you and to myself, but they like the feeling of being needed. It is sometimes mistaken for the feeling of being Loved. The humans often confuse the two; after all, being loved isn't as noticeable as being needed. With being needed they feel as if someone should always be recognizing them and always looking over them to make sure that the stupid little creature is doing well. See how preposterous it is? Whenever she feels like no one is noticing her, use that to confuse the little one so that she feels no one loves her. Since these two concepts are so easily confused with each other she can easily find herself lost in this web and feeling completely left out and unLoved. How brilliant,
Affectionately yours
COILROPE