One insecurity that you should try to focus on, as you already have been, is what I like to call 'what ifs'. I'm sure you remember it from your studies but, knowing you, I'm also sure that there have been important aspects forgotten. This is a game of dreams and wishes in a never ending cycle of impossibilities. As you try to get your human to live in forgotten yesterdays and hopeless possibilities for the future remember that it is all for their downfall. This kind of dreamlike state is what we want all of these creatures to continually live in. Even though some argue that it is differently, it does not depend on the type of human you are dealing with. Any ability to be unhappy with their lives is an ability for us to become closer to them. Get her to let her mind wander into regrets of the past and wishes for the present. She will believe that it is simply a small thing but she will be slowly wandering towards us,
Affectionately yours
COILROPE
